When everyone got there it seemed that there was some tension, maybe due to the drive, school stress, or a general lack of communication. However, the tension was quelled soon after and everyone got settled in.
Saturday brought a day full of flurries and fun...at least for me. It was really cold but thankfully I was prepared whereas most of the retreaters weren't (more to come below). We did the COPE course under the guidance of really good and entertaining scouting volunteers. The course was really difficult and the cold didn't help at all. After a morning of COPE we had lunch and a devotional and then free time. During free time I walked around the camp and realized that my legs are longer now and things didn't seem as far away as they used to feel. Dinner prep went well and with the help of some people Jake and I cooked Shark Patrol chicken and dumplings and strawberry shortcake for 24 people. I'd vent about the dinner cooking and initiative of the group in general but I don't really feel like it and I'll blame it on the cold. It was definitely nice to have my mummy bag and I actually used the cinch cord around the hood so I slept well after the tiring activities of the day.
Sunday brought a beautiful sunrise and more tension as we were getting ready to leave. Communication and thoughtfullness seems to be the key to having a successful retreat.
The drive home was more fun than the drive down. The weather was perfect and the roads weren't icy. I saw ice climbers and frozen tree tops in the national forests. It was my first time really driving in the mountains and it was great fun.
From my outsider perspective WCF seems to have grown cliquish. It may have been that way for awhile and I'm just now noticing it since I'm not there all the time anymore. With any group there will be subgroups, especially in a school setting where you have cohorts by grades and more importantly personalities, but this was very prevalent this weekend. With 24 people attending the retreat there was bound to be some conflict but this time it seemed more malicious than normal and thus wasn't easily forgiven or forgotten. While it's easy for me to say forgive and forget it is an essential quality to possess when working in and being part of a group of people and especially friends. I'm chalking up most of the problems this weekend to the weather and people's school stress. I just hope that people can get along better and talk out their problems or it's going to be a long semester at WCF.
Now for all of you that have read this far and don't want to be cold in future outdoor pursuits here's a list of suggested clothing. Take in mind that, yes being prepared gets expensive, but if you shopping wisely and over a period of time it's not that bad. Plus quality gear will last you a long time. This was my clothing that kept me warm this weekend, that has been accumulated over a period of over 5 years.
The key is synthetic materials. Cotton is the enemy. This is the order of materials you should try to wear.
Undergarmets:
Outerwear:
Sleeping:
Now if you've made it this far you're ready for some cold weather camping.
Comments:
katie ( / http://ktbeal.blogspot.com ) (IP: 128.61.58.77)
wcf has definitely changed. sometimes change is hard to accept if you were there before the change. i just wonder if i came to wcf now if i would feel the same acceptance that i did freshman year. sadly, i think with a few notable exceptions of people who are really welcoming, i would not get as warm of a reception. maybe it's just me being cynical. school stresses everyone out, but to the point that we are not even civil or considerate of each other anymore. to me that is a problem. i don't know how to solve it. i just wish people would step back from their own problems for a moment. the people at wcf have stepped back from themselves and helped me many times. i never want that to go away, and i'm scared that it is.
2004/02/12 @ 13:33:47
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Melissa ( / http://amaryllismagicshpot.blogspot.com ) (IP: 67.33.108.229)
The tension was so thick this weekend that sometimes it seemed you could cut it with a knife...for once I wasn't in either group of people- I wasn't mad, nor was I one of the people they were mad at...being outside it all was a completely different perspective than I usually have, and it really showed me how silly it can all get. I know I was cliquish, since I stuck to Susan or Plinkey the entire weekend, but I know I just needed a break from my usual crowd (I love my girls, but I need my space sometimes) I have felt the difference around WCF lately...and it scares me sometimes...but there's so many factors that are contributing- it's hard to pin down what's really changed/changing. The biggest thing I notice is that people don't seem to trust each other...I'm including myself when I say that we tend to do things behind others backs and without always considering how our attitudes and actions affect the group as a whole. WCF means so much to me, and I have made some of my best friends there...it hurts to see things falling apart the way they have been...
2004/02/13 @ 20:11:16
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Adam Edwards ( thefro.net ) (IP: 128.61.107.112)
I have noticed a lot of the group thing too, but I am not at all sure of how much of it is real. It could largly a change in perspective, kinda alike in your being away from the group in effect, but from about the oposite cause. Mine is from coming in knowing not that many people, and I have never been one that can really tell the interactions of groups that easily, especialy when have not been around them that much. So I am wondering how much of this groupishness is new in the past half year, and how much of it I was just not seeing when it was there before. Another thing is the retreat coulda been pretty atypical, I was not in the best condition to pay attention cause of the sick thing, so didn't much. Just some thoughts and observations, I waited a day or so for them to coalesce into something more coherent, but it didn't happen, so you got what you got.
(the guy with really big hair who got sick on the retreat)
2004/02/16 @ 23:30:10
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